There's Always going to be something in your life that messes up the waterworks...You'll Never be able to get all your chickens into one basket...So, what does that leave you with? Work with it...go with the flow...stop trying to paddle against the current...let your boat float With the current. It's hard to do isn't it?!! Just let that old boat...turn. I'm 'gonna laugh today if it kills me...Hahaa...Hope you do to!!! Have a great Thursday!